The theme of this year's International Women's Day was 'Break the Bias'. As part of the campaign, we were encouraged to think of a world that's free of bias, stereotypes, and discrimination. But what does this mean for parents and carers? And how can we achieve a world free of bias for our children? Sally Dear, founder of Ducky Zebra, shares her thoughts on how we can break the bias for children.
International Women's Day (IWD) saw phrases such as 'break the bias' or 'challenge gender stereotypes'. But what do they mean? Put very simply, a gender stereotype is when we apply an oversimplified generalisation about the roles and characteristics of a girl (or woman) and a boy (or man). And this year's IWD campaign was designed to encourage us to break away from these preconceptions.
Examples of gender stereotypes include:
These stereotypes can be found in the clothes we buy, the books we read, the toys we play with, the TV we watch - even the language we use. Often, they're so subtle we might not even notice them. Have you ever looked at the characters on kids' clothing for instance?
These (often) subtle differences all add up, helping to reinforce gender stereotypes.
There are several problems with stereotypes. What if a child doesn't neatly fall into their preconceived 'box'? A boy who likes pink for instance, in our world of 'pink for girls' and 'blue for boys', could be teased by other children for his colour preference.
Even if our children do neatly fall into their 'box', this can also be problematic if they learn these stereotypes are expected, believing them to be factual.
During the ages of 2 and 5 children are busy making sense of the world around them, and by the time they're six, most children have worked out their role and place within the world. This goes on to influence their decisions later in life.
Breaking the bias in early years can help address these problems. What can we do as parents to encourage this?
Here are five suggestions for how we can break the bias for our little ones:
1. Be conscious of these biases: It might sound obvious, but by being aware of these stereotypes and biases in the first place, is a great first step.
2. Point out stereotypes and discuss them with our children: For young children the stereotypes they observe are akin to 'facts'. By pointing these stereotypes out, and discussing them with our children, we can help them to question the biases around them. Better still, share examples of how these stereotypes are being broken: "Daddy's favourite top is pink" and "Aunt Sue is a fantastic footballer".
3. Be conscious when we buy: Books, toys and clothes can all influence a child's view of the world around them. There are some great sites and directories, which share brands that are either free from stereotypes and/or actively challenge stereotypes including:
4. Rethink our language: Often (and unknowingly) the language we use perpetuates stereotypes. Here are five examples for how we can tweak our language to be more inclusive:
5. Be informed: There are many fantastic websites and resources with more information about why and how we can break the bias in early years including:
About the author, Sally Dear
Sally is a mum of two and founder of Ducky Zebra. She left her career in marketing after growing frustrated with the outdated gender stereotypes found in high street kids' clothing. Ducky Zebra's mission is to inspire kindness and confidence in children through colourful, sustainable clothing. Their unisex designs are free from stereotypes, and their clothing is fun and colourful. For every garment bought, they donate £1 to charity.