Advice and Tips to Help Your Teen Beat Exam Stress
Working towards exams can create feelings of worry and being under pressure, especially at university when students are aiming for a degree. Student Minds, the student mental health charity, gives its advice on dealing with exam stress.
The prospect of exams can be stressful - and whether your child is living in another city, or at home with you, or perhaps even in another country, these pointers may help them deal with the feelings of worry and concern.
As a parent, you may find these helpful to share with your child or simply read yourself so that you can help as best you can.
- Keep it in Perspective
- Lots of people will tell you this, because it's true - exams aren't everything. Whatever happens in your exams, you can still be successful in life afterwards. So if you don't do as well as you'd hoped, try to keep things in perspective.
- Employers don't just look at your exam scores. They're just as interested in your attitude, your transferable skills and how well you'll get on with other people.
- Exam success doesn't define you as a person. Everyone copes differently in different situations and there's so much more to your personality than how well you can respond to an exam.
- Think about how far you've come already. You've already done incredibly well to get to university, and stopping or failing exams at this point isn't 'throwing away' your past success.
- Once you've done an exam, try to forget about it. There's nothing you can do about it, and worrying won't change your mark.
- Get that Organised Feeling
- Picture your exams as a time-bound project. Are the exams 60 days away? That's your 60-day challenge. Best of all, there's a definite end point.
- Work out the basics: which exams you have, how the marks are allocated, and how much you have to learn for each one. Don't expect to learn everything; but having in mind where you'll get the marks can help you prioritise.
- Break your revision down into small chunks, and form a plan. Once you've got a plan, you won't have any more dilemmas at the start of the day about what to work on.
- Schedule in plenty of free time to unwind, and protect this time. Nobody can work all day every day. If you give yourself plenty of rest you can do the same amount of work in half the time or less.
- Equally, don't panic if you go slightly off schedule - tomorrow is another day.
- Get into Some Good Habits
These habits can help you concentrate as well as reduce stress:
- Take frequent breaks. Psychologists say we can only concentrate properly for 30-45 minutes.. When you do take a break make sure you don't stay at your desk, you could go for a walk or even just make a cup of tea.
- Eat well. Keep a good blood sugars level to avoid highs and lows of energy, by eating slow-release foods like wholemeal bread, rice, pasta, fruit and veg.
- Drink lots of water. People often underestimate how much hydration can help your brain function.
- Think about when and where you work best. Not everyone is a morning person, and some people don't find the library a productive place to work. There's no one best place or time to work - it's about what works for you.
- Keep active. Even a short walk will do. Exercising is one of the quickest and most effective ways to de-stress. Fresh air can clear your head and perk you up.
- Try to get about 8 hours' sleep a night. If you're stressed about not being able to sleep, there are lots of ways to aid a good night's sleep.
- Find activities that help you relax. Maybe it's a hot bath, watching a TV show, or creative activity. Schedule this downtime into your timetable.
- Avoid Bad Habits
- Don't set yourself overly ambitious goals. Nobody can revise 10 topics in a day or revise all night. Avoid setting the day up to be a disappointment.
- Don't cut out all the enjoyment from your life. It's tempting to decide you'll just knuckle down to work and "focus", but this can be counterproductive - it's impossible to focus without giving your brain rest by doing other activities.
- Avoid stimulants. Caffeine, alcohol, and drugs impede your energy and concentration in the long term. They can also make it more difficult to get that much-needed sleep.
- Get Support From Friends and Family
- Don't be put off by friends saying that they are doing huge amounts of revision. As already mentioned, that's probably not actually a productive or efficient way of working long term. One of the key reasons people feel exam stress is due to comparing themselves to other people.
- If you're feeling really worried or anxious, chat to a good friend, family member, or tutor. It can help to get it out of your system, and they may well be able to help think about practical strategies to deal with exam stress.
